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Self Acceptance and Society/Fat Acceptance

Self acceptance is loving and appreciating yourself even if there are things you'd eventually like to change. Fat acceptance or society acceptance is getting society as a whole to accept that we have the same rights as everyone else and to reduce prejudice within the community.
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Self-acceptance means unconditional appreciation and support for who you are now, including all the elements that you want to change.

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Being Whoever You Want to Be This Halloween

Until last year, I was self-professed as completely anti-Halloween. Traumatized by a sixth-grade Halloween costume contest mishap and unimpressed by the candy-driven commercialism, I hadn't been a fan of Halloween in 40 years...that is, until my granddaughter insisted I particpate with her last year by dressing up as one of the Sanderson sisters from the popular cult movie Hocus Pocus. I learned a lot about myself and Halloween that year.

It wasn't all my granddaughter's idea, dressing up as one of the Sanderson sisters, that is. My daughter has been a fan of the movie for over 20 years--the 25th anniversary was last year and it's a must--so she was in on it, too. Of course there are three Sanderson sisters and I was the third--Winifred (my chunky frame came in handy and it was a no-brainer).

By being forced out of my anti-Halloween comfort zone, in essence I was forced to have fun! I had to forget all about my previous Halloween misgivings and be in the moment to be Winnie, alongside my daughter and granddaughter. It was definitely a night to remember as we handed out candy to trick-or-treaters and got many comments, accolades and request for "pictures with the Sanderson sisters" throughout the night.

I discovered that no matter how old you are, you can embrace even the wackiest of holidays and have a great time. As for Halloween, you can be anyone you want to be or anyone you wanted to be--a rock star, a famous leader in history, a scary witch, a good fairy or anything your heart desires. Take a chance and be someone else for the day!

There is talk of several family members dressing up as the characters from the Aadams Family TV show this year, I just hope they don't have me dress up as Uncle Fester.

Have a wonderful Halloween and get out there and have a blast!

Written by: T.E.Bush

"Hobgoblins know the proper way to dance:
Arms akimbo, loopy legs askew,
Leaping into darkness with delight,
Lusting for the ecstasy of fright,
Open to the charm of horrors new...."
~Nicholas Gordon,
"I cannot endure to waste anything as precious as autumn sunshine by staying in the house. So I spend almost all the daylight hours in the open air."
~Nathaniel Hawthorne

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