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Hey there everyone. I'm Gabby, sister Bertha's northern cousin. I'm going to be taking your questions now. I hope I can be of help to all you amazing readers, so please don't hesitate to let me know what is bothering you.

Now keep sendin' in those letters to me at and make sure you mark it Attention: Dear Gabby.

This months letter....

Dear Gabby,

My boyfriend and I share a computer and lately I've been finding trails of porn. I'm an SSBBW and he tells me I'm sexy but these pictures I find are of thin women. I am feeling paranoid and self conscious and wondering if that is what he really wants. When I confront hm he denys it and says he doesn't even know how they got there. What should I do?

Gabby's Response:

Yours is a question that I think almost every woman asks in this computer age. Lets admit it. MEN LOVE TO LOOK!! If it is sexual, men will look. Why? Because men are visually stimulated whereas us women are more emotionally stimulated.

With all the stuff available on the internet it is no surprise that men look for porn in any shape and size. He is probably telling you that he has no idea where it came from so he doesn't have to admit to you what he was doing. Men can be alot like boys in that they don't to be caught doing something they think they shouldn't.

If your relationship and sex life is good, I really don't think you have anything to worry about. Only you will be able to say if you should do anything else. Give it sometime and I think everything will be all right.

Let me know in a month or so how things are.

Love, Gabby

Disclaimer: This advice is for fun and entertainment purposes only. It should not replace the advice of a qualified professional.

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